I want you all of the time. You were the one who gave her butterflies. This is me exactly, someone understands and its not im just crazy. Sample Letter 17 Dear love, Nothing relaxes me more than your head on my chest. Write her amazing love letters that truly open out your heart for her. However, God is the Only One who can meet all your emotional needs. Philip Zimbardo, Psychology Today, August 1980, 71-76.
I would like to acknowledge and apologize for my part in the demise of our marriage. I have tried, in my mad tussle with anger, to move my lifeless body away from the crib in which my baby lay, and I have tried, despite my hurt, to not judge him or you. I didn't always trust that this was true. I still love the relaxation of your massage. The words should be those he would love to hear from you.
Not just for writing this and having the courage to share it. To preserve the love I have for you and my own sanity I have come to a decision of my own. The thoughts just come over you and can be consuming. I never knew how to explain how I felt. There are others who need someone to tell them that? I neglected your needs, and failed to give you what you needed many times.
You asked if I would ever consider reconciliation and I would. I love your hands and how they feel holding mine. When the monster is here i cant talk. I literally felt like I was losing my mind. Who would have thought that after 2 kids and 22 years of marriage you would be in the best shape of your life? From one person going through depression to another, I hope you feel better. You have a history worth knowing. Not too long after that, we discovered that our young married friends were also moving to help start a church plant.
I loved you then, and I love you even more now. Their marriage wore down under the draining influence of isolation. If you continue to ignore her cries for help, you continue to blow them off, or you continue to fuel the flame of distance, then you will find yourself alone in your bed. Often times, my opinions alone are skewed, and I need you to help me balance it all out. Now I know that it runs through both sides of my family.
Right now is good but the bad time catch me unexpectedly! My loving wife Sandra, you raise my soul every time I think of you. What you really meant was—would I please stop taking your head off when I was upset about something else. In one sweeping statement, you managed to communicate exactly how much you value me and at the same time how much value you have placed on yourself. We think first of our needs, our happily ever after, our own selfish ambitions. When you begin to - focusing on serving him rather than being served, on meeting his needs, rather than having yours met - you may very well find that he has much less to criticize you for, much less to be rude about, and much more of a desire to pursue you again. Again thank you and God Bless you always.
It is real, he will never understand the feeling that consume my heart. Our husbands are disappointed in us, just as much as we are in them. Lots of Love for you and your family. Your letter was poignant and a brave step against adversity. I cried reading this post, and sent it to my husband. He is still writing your redemption story. I would not wish depression upon my worst enemy.
You still are the girl of my dreams and all I could have ever hoped for. I forgive whatever pain you have caused me and hope that in time you will forgive me too. I know sometimes I overreact to the smallest thing and get angry, but please be patient with me. Sometimes my husband wants to believe everything is hunky dory, so what do I have to be said about. The pain and emptiness that I experience on a daily basis is almost too much to bear. That conversation is painful to start and painful to verbally share.
I love watching the way you take such good care of our children. I will ride to those places often. Or at least less alone. It feels like you pulled all the emotions and feelings out of my head and explained them in a way I never would have been able to. Yet, I think of you more than is healthy for me or my family! To tell you how much I want you. Your fears make up a part of who you are, and I married the whole package.