They want to see their beautiful wife getting pleasured from a third person perspective or have the wife come home and confess all the naughty details. Has he lost his desire for you? The other women we know - we don't talk about it and they don't seem to know. I know she had the time of her life, because this other man is very good in bed. Their ring exchange should be complete with vows, and those vows should identify the promises being made about her total sexual availability to him, no matter what she may say during your wedding ceremony and no matter what else may occur. And a very modern interpretation.
So if you don't plan you end up looking for more - and that could lead to other issues - health, rape etc. We have all grown enormously, and the fantastic dynamic between the three of us has to be seen to be believed. We have been married for four years. That may be part of why she wanted me to continue dating others. I love my wife dearly. This would be far more positive than brooding over what was probably trivial and a long time ago. Then there are cases where the reason has nothing to do with the man getting pleasure out of seeing his wife with another man or hearing about his wife being with another man.
Another one of his fantasies is watching me in bed with another guy. We all had an amazing night, and although there were no sexual encounters, I think we all realized we had established a pretty good group. Good luck hun and keep us posted. Tagged as: Question - 16 January 2008 47 Answers - Newest, 2 July 2012 A female age 30-35, anonymous writes: my husband, of two years,. Might she have been having an affair? Talk it out with her. He gave me money every time and a £100 for my virginity which made me a.
He told me all his girl friends and his first wife had cheated on him. Our first alcohol free, one-on-one chat. They believe their wives can have sex with little or no emotional feelings resulting from the fantasy. He slammed the door so hard when he arrived that he damaged it. He doesn't do anything that would break any rules, but my wife gets hot now from being touched by another man, especially when he rubs her legs.
I have tried to follow her thinking. I view my wife as my best friend, lover, and the thought of sharing her with other men disgusts me. It was all very dirty and disgusting to her. There are many other things that occur, along the lines of bio-chemical euphoria that occurs in sex with a new, and exciting partner. He loves you so deeply that instead of feeling jealousy he takes pleasure when you are with another man. They had sex and now she is wiling to show him a few new tricks, using me as an example. But our circle stuck together and we all denied it - the other men involved laughed and said the accuser was nuts - what else could they do? Release your ownership and allow her to explore what she needs to become a fully realized person.
A female reader, anonymous, writes 16 January 2008 : You're not only playing with fire, but you are just asking for trouble in your marriage. There are other rules and punishments , but thats for you two to decide. He sounds horridly insecure about his own abilities and his own value as a good, loving devoted husband. We are talking and liking each other more than we have in years. Had forgotten about our encounter but not her soul in prayers.
We were good friends for a year before all this, which is why we were comfortable with starting dating and living together at the same time… The problem, I think, is that while I was her first, I had prior sexual experience with former girlfriends. Thing is, curiousity and wondering what a guy you see or meet is like in the sack is ok, but there's an awful lot of guys in this world and you can't sample them all. There are couples that invite strangers into their bedrooms for a threesome or moresome. But what I had done, Chris, is sleep with plenty of people. I can find that here. If you like being sexy and you want to be naughty with other men why not see if your husband wants to be included - to see you get it different way? The last thing you need is a baby with any of these guys.
Come in and cry with me. Even more if the guy is black and has a much larger penis. We all make mistakes, but you made the right decision for you at that particular time, I wish you could go and get her back and marry her and lead the lifestyle we do, but you never mentioned if she ever married him or if you know if she's still single? Her reservations also evolved when she got it really good by are really big one. We all have a certain set of morals we live by. I'm sure that having sex with other men makes you feel attractive and wanted and that self confidence may help your long term relationship.