If you're both young then no, but if you're both in your 20s or up it could be okay. We joke about our little situation and he's turning 21 soon, so again, doesn't matter. Other variables like race, class and gender identity will also factor in to the power balance of your relationship. I wouldn't consider dating someone 3-4 years older than me unless she were absolutely stunning and looks after herself very well. Would any ladies here dats a younger guy? Not only has he got the energy thing on his side, but it's unlikely that he'll be a selfish lover.
He might be into, say, letting you put things in his butt. We're all aging, and life is too damned short to not date someone who's younger than you just because society has psyched you out about it. My ex was 8 months younger than me. There are certain difficulties that accompany every relationship with a large age gap, but in the case of men dating younger women, there's also a tricky power dynamic that needs to be considered. How do guys feel about dating someone older, excluding the cougar variety.
But you've got to bear in mind that people change a lot in their late teens and early 20s, and so it's often difficult to develop a stable relationship at that age. If he loves and respects you but has his childish quirks, that's such a trivial thing that shouldn't matter : My current guy is the best guy I could ever have, and one year younger just means I deserve more respect as the older girl haha, and yes - he laps it up and has a jolly good time playing on the 'I am older than him' joke :D Try the word cougar, men love the fact a woman is 1+ years older than them, and seems that the older woman, younger man scenario is trending to be a plus for healthy fun loving relationships : If you have someone in mind, pounce on him and bring out that inner cougar in you ; l dated someone a year younger for about 6 months, and it was great, the only reason we broke up was because of distance. Be a catalyst for change: start with yourself and aid others in shedding stereotypes. It certainly depends heavily on the age of the younger woman rather than just the quantity of the age gap. Robinson he has to sexually prove himself to! We were both in our twenties. So he'll be the one doing all the traveling.
I'm sure Nick would love any girl of any age younger than him, just like Brad Pitt likes Angelina Jolie Younger And as the person above sa … id, it's all to do with the match. I am marry to some one 8 years younger than me I am 29 and my Wife is 21. Also, how is the chemistry between you tw … o? In early December 2013, my boyfriend and I had our first date. Personally I have no problem with that. I'm not so sure about that.
I know that he knows I'm older, because i am graduating law school soon, and my facebook has my college graduation date and all that. I also think it can be hard to be from different generations. I got this comment many times with my last relationship and felt even more confident hearing it. Moreover, I often want to hide away — to avoid family functions, social outings, and not have to face people eye to eye. There are days when the weight of it all leaves me immobilized, sad, and unable to focus on anything. He's got less romantic history for you to deal with. I really like and hes so into me.
He's down with letting you call the shots. It pays to look very closely and honestly at your reasons for considering dating a younger woman. I am aware that what they do not understand. Just a month ago, we had to have another talk about whether or not we should stay together or break up — simply because of the pressure put on us from hearing so many critical opinions about our relationship. Ones 30, 27, 25, and twins at 22. I've never dated guys younger than me before and usually, as soon as I find out that person is younger, I lose interest in talking to them immediately although, admittedly, I will still be physically attracted to him.
She had many more years of life experience and wisdom to draw on, and we had great conversations. I was going off to college soon so I stopped dating seriously to avoid heartbreak, then fell in love with a girl and dated anyway haha. Please use spoiler tags to hide spoilers. Which makes sense — in the course of 24 months, I transformed from a college senior who'd never lived on my own and subsisted primarily on bagels stolen from the school cafeteria to a financially independent adult who worked a serious job and subsisted primarily on bagels stolen from work. Isadora says that many younger men who date older women say that they are tired of the emotional games younger women play.
In their defense, I hardly grew up dating or crushing on men close to my age group. Him and I met thru a mutual friend. In reality, strangers hardly know there is much of an age difference between us, and they're almost certainly unaware that the difference is about 12. I'm currently dating my first and current boyfriend who is 10 months younger than me. No one will judge you. I've known people who were 10 years apart. Unless he's had an especially soul-crushing unpaid internship, he's probably got some beautiful illusions about his promising place in the workforce.