I had only been stroking mainly the head but now I'm including the entire penis shaft, sometimes even avoiding the head all together. Like last night my gf wasn't feeling pretty, so she wanted to have sex so I could make her feel pretty. But my God, he comes by, gives me a kiss, then lays on the bed? Alcohol can also dehydrate your body, which means there's less blood to flow. A man and a woman need each other, equally. He's thinking about someone else. I really really am trying to be sexy and everything without putting on pressure for sex but it is really hard to know what to do when he says he doesn't know what has changed either. Thinking it was medical I had myself checked out and the doc explained how normal this is for someone in my situation.
I don't want to turn to pills or anything like that because I've heard bad things. At this point, after a few attempts, I just give him a hand job or blow job until he finishes. Lately he has been having a problem staying hard while having sex. After 6 months or so of trying and talking, he was feeling so pressured and knew I had to back off. Talk about the options, together.
I want to please my girl, I love her. I am a strong woman, not as insecure as most, but I have my moments. The device does not seem compatible with everyone and it is crippling peoples lives. It might seem stupid and yes, somewhat expensive since it's not the intended purpose but I'd been having sex with my gf without condoms due to the pill plus my erection problem removing condoms from the picture helped a lot, but didn't do it all. If you give it time I think your chances will be better and you both will enjoy it more. I intend on slowly moving back to smooth cotton once the issue is manageable.
I didn't react like you would think I would. Anyway, I was wondering if you had any other advice as your last post was very helpful and reassuring. If you have the money to buy them, practice with them. So, like any expert who is out of his depth on a given question, I turn to the Internet to help bolster my opinion with a few facts. It's most likely not your fault. Think about the sex and how good it will feel to have it. He went to the doctor and it turned out being stomach ulcers.
During the 4 week period, find a goal to take your mind off it. I think it's the opposite--you are the sexiest woman he's ever been with in real life and he feels like he's living a dream. Take it slow, really slow. I love her to death. It is all about blood flow and mind set to get and keep an erection.
Then if the erection is back after that period of time put intercourse back on the table. And the unfortunately consequence is it makes it more difficult every time because now he is not only worried about one or two things, he is worried about everything! It became a issue for me in a particular relationship. I would say wait a little bit longer. Some of these items may be useful to other people. In fact, my penis remains in good working condition, not unlike a reliable Honda Accord with 120,000 miles on it.
They take a blood sample, and a week or so later he would find out if he has low or diminished levels of testosterone. It's difficult but I can now orgasm this way within 20 minutes instead of the 100+ minutes it initially took. We were and still are into each other but I have a major problem keeping or even getting an erection. However, if you truly feel that he might be struggling with a deeper issue, you should reach out to someone in his family, a close friend or a medical professional for help. Everything else, to her, was second rate.
Relax, try not to think. I feel partially that this is due because I got raped in the past and its a defensive mechanism in my body. One thing led to another and I found myself in the exact same situation. I'm not going to claim that I'm an expert in bed but we have been together for nearly a year and before this became a problem I was defiantly satisfying him and vice-versa. Then, to make it worse, we have such a variety of porn at our hands that we have the privilege to become picky with what types of perfect models we want to see, and in what positions, etc. One the face of things there's nothing wrong with that. Second, the same thing is happening to me.