While I was out of town, I have reason to believe that my fella has done some shameful things. . Since I was such a lousy wife he needed to find other women to fill his needs. My focus is me, I deserve it since my husband was focusing on other things. I cant change other people. Most of us need to learn better tools to do this. What is the truth and what is a lie.
But, this is part of human nature too. It continued until I could no longer take it. Since his affair he is morose and angry when he's alone with me, but if we go out with friends, he seems happy during that time. Are you a high value woman? They would rather tell a little white lie, then go through all the hassle of arguing. He has promised so many times to stop and i always hear the same thing coming from his mouth, its actually kind of sickening how many times ive heard the same thing.
We are fighting because he lies to me. Relationship problems like this are also global. Another small thing is avoiding potential arguements. I push people to strive for greatness, i am more financially stable than my husband, he has this issue with consistency and finishing things so he never completed his education. Dot, it must be frustrating to make such an effort and not have the connection it sounds like you want. He likes to surround himself with attractive fun girls to the point to which I feel disrespected. And they texted back and forth all the time too.
That's not normal and definitely indicates he's lying. My boyfriend has done coke in the past, but he seems to have stopped now, which was a relief for me. Is there some way I can make him feel more comfortable? He must not have the benefits of marriage without the responsibilities. I am trapped I look at him and I hate him for what his done to me. Monday, I called him for a favor around 4pm and he pretended to be at work, literally acting out walking to his vehicle to check his personal phone for me and offering to stop working every so often to check it, saying he was finishing up soon and heading home. I simply decided to put the entire thing behind me which was the best decision I could have possibly made. Since I can't necessarily trust what he says, it's hard to know.
Zero respect for his wife. How does that make you feel? Yet alcohol is completely legal for those 21 and older. For instance, if one partner has accumulated large amounts of debt without telling the other, you might have to cash out a 401k to pay for it, sacrificing your chances of a. But she has never met him and within 15 minutes of talking to me she diagnosed him and it fits. The sooner you tackle small problems, such as a gap in your budget or an unpaid balance on your credit cards, the easier it is to keep them from turning into big problems. At least they are interacting with the real you. I helped him with his aunt.
This denies them being accountable for their own actions, and placing the responsibility for the lies on the person being lied to?! Or at least it could be a lot worse. Look at your friends today and you will learn something about yourself. For 3 months this dude was acting like he was going to work. I am setting about building a new life. And have been for over 20 years but was too afraid to tell me about her cos she us female and he thinks I would have kicked off about it…I tried to tell him surely it would have been better to tell me rather than lie to me!! I can see that putting things up when she comes into the room looks as bad as always being on the devices.
November 18, 2012, 12:20 pm Sure. If they need to do either, then they should end it. November 17, 2014, 9:45 pm Hi Hannah I feel your pain it sucks. When he dropped me at the station he repeated it but said I should still visit so to let him know. No safe warm security at my house!!! He was mentally abusive and has hit me. Every time this happens, he acts like everything is just fine. You have to own up to them so that you can be able to forgive him.
Recently I was contacted by a lady on Instagram. May 6, 2014, 7:37 pm Ajiri Ovie, sounds to me like your a rebound chick to this man. I don't look at other men. He grew up getting in trouble for things he didn't hear, and yet Mommy or Daddy said they told him, so everything was confusing and the coping mechanism of lying came about to try to stop constantly being in trouble for something he couldn't help. I think you need to get your act together your personal life. Never mind the impending divorce or how much that devalues me and the marriage. When we lie, we are stealing social commodity without having earned it.